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The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey claim to have more than 33% of women and one in 12 men have encountered life-partner violence in their lifetime.

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If you are charged with a domestic violence offence, you should seek advice immediately from experts like Marsh Blom Lawyers. You will be guided thoroughly and professionally which will make the things easier and smoother for you to handle properly.

Moreover, in case you’re in a fix about what you can do to help, you should study the following tips.

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                Effective Measures to Stop Domestic Violence

Here are 7 points you can adopt to help prevent domestic violence at home.

  1. Know the warning signs

White, black, young, old, rich, poor, educated, uneducated__ anyone can fall a prey to domestic violence at home. Sometime viciousness starts from the get-go in a relationship and on different occasions it takes months or even a long time to show up. On the other hand, some warning signs happen to appear. Be careful about the red flags an abuser may show anytime in a relationship:

  • Being envious of your companions or time spent away from your partner.
  • Disheartening you from investing time away from your partner.
  • Humiliating or disgracing you.
  • Controlling every budgetary choice.
  • Making you feel remorseful for all the issues in the relationship.
  • Preventing you from working.
  • Deliberately damaging your property.
  • Undermining brutality against you, your pets or somebody you like to gain obedience.
  • Pressurizing you to engage in sexual relations when you would prefer not to.
  • Threatening you physically, particularly with weapons.

2. Don’t overlook it

Cops hear something very similar from witnesses over and over—I heard/saw domestic violence but would not like to get engaged. If you hear your neighbours involved in a violent situation, call the police. This is your social and moral responsibility to keep your society free of the evils like domestic violence. It could help to spare a life in the end.

3. Hear out

If somebody ever opens his heart to you that they are encountering domestic violence at home, tune in without judgment. Accept what they are letting you know and ask how you can help. Your patient and attentive listening will not only console their heart but may also go a long way towards solving the issue sensibly.

4. Be available

If somebody you know is intending to leave or is in fear that the violence may shoot up, be prepared to help. Your cell phone should be with you with the ringer on, make sure your car tank is full and talk about a runaway plan or meeting place early. Mind it that your prompt availability counts a lot in many respects.

5. Keep the nearby shelter number

Nobody ever knows who may need a haven in no time. Keep numbers to shelters and your cell phone is equipped with the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

6. Check consistently as well as randomly

If a loved one or friend is in peril, connect routinely to guarantee their security. You may keep in touch off and on as well. It will keep the victim well boosted and motivated all the time to face the things confidently.

7. Be empathic

Somebody encountering violence will most likely be unable to research shelters, escape plans or set up necessities like bank balances and mobile phones while living with their abuser. Offer to do the legwork to help ease stress and keep things hush-hush.

Conclusion:

Domestic violence in our society is in full swing. To cope with it, we need to pursue some effective techniques.

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The children of Chris Corley, who is accused of beating his wife and pointing a gun at her, can be heard screaming “just stop, Daddy” on a 911 call recording.

The 36-year-old South Carolina Republican representative has been charged with first degree domestic violence and pointing a firearm at a person.

The 911 call was made on December 26, and released by police to local media.

Chris Corley recently voted for legislation toughening punishments for domestic violence.

His children can be heard in a recording released to the Aiken Standard newspaper: “Just stop Daddy. Just stop…Daddy, why are you doing this?”

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In a second call, a woman identified by the Aiken County Sheriff’s Office as Chris Corley’s mother-in-law tells a dispatcher: “He beat his wife and he’s threatening to kill himself.”

Citing the arrest warrant, the Aiken Standard reports that Chris Corley hit his wife “about the head and face with a closed fist” before pointing a handgun at her. The violence was allegedly committed in front of an 8-year-old child.

The couple has three children.

Chris Corley told police his wife thought he was cheating on her, and he pushed her away when she attempted to strike him, the newspaper reports.

He is known for his efforts to keep the Confederate flag flying outside the South Carolina state house.

The flag was removed in July 2015 after the massacre of nine people in a black church in Charleston by white supremacist Dylann Roof.

During a debate on the issue last year Chris Corley suggested that the Confederate flag should be replaced with the white flag of surrender.

Chris Corley was released on a $20,000 bond and could face up to 15 years in jail if convicted of both charges.

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Don McLean has been arrested on a charge of domestic violence assault, it has been reported.

The American Pie singer is said to have been released from Knox County Jail in Tennessee after posting $10,000 bail.

Don McLean, who lives in Camden, Maine, had a 1971 hit with American Pie, about the deaths of Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens and the Big Bopper in a plane crash.

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It was reported that Don McLean, 70, was held after police were called to a property at 02:00 local time on January 18.

The Wiscasset Newspaper published what it said was a mug shot of Don McLean.

He is reportedly set to appear at the Knox County Unified Court, Rockland, on February 22.

Don McLean has amassed more than 40 gold and platinum records worldwide during his career. He is understood to have last performed at a local lobster festival in August.

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Chris Brown says he wants to get an Australian visa to use his influence as an entertainer to raise awareness about domestic violence.

The singer was commenting in a tweet to news at the weekend that he is unlikely to be given a visa to perform in Australia because of his domestic abuse record.

Chris Brown is scheduled to go on tour in Australia in December, and tickets went on sale on September 28.

He was told on September 27 that he had 28 days to appeal against the decision.

“I would be more than grateful to come to Australia to raise awareness about domestic violence,” Chris Brown tweeted.

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“I’m not the pink elephant in the room anymore.”

“My life mistakes should be a wake up call for everyone. Showing the world that mistakes don’t define you. Trying to prevent spousal abuse,” the singer said.

In 2009, Chris Brown pleaded guilty to assaulting his then-girlfriend Rihanna. He has toured Australia twice since, but the government is under pressure to refuse him this time.

Australia’s immigration department has issued a “notice of intention to consider refusal,” Immigration Minister Peter Dutton said.

Chris Brown has 28 days to present a case as to why he should be granted a visa, after which a final decision will be made.

Minister for Women Michaelia Cash, who was until recently assistant immigration minister, had urged Peter Dutton to take a stand on the issue.

It follows the Australian government’s decision earlier this year to refuse a visa for world champion boxer Floyd Mayweather on similar grounds.

Floyd Mayweather had been booked for dinner and nightclub appearances in Sydney and Melbourne in January.

New Zealand has already ruled that Chris Brown is unsuitable for entry into the country.

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Chris Brown has been told he is unlikely to be given a visa to perform in Australia because of his record of domestic violence.

The 26-year-old singer is scheduled to go on tour in Australia in December, and tickets are due to go on sale on September 28.

Chris Brown now has 28 days to appeal.

In 2009, Chris Brown pleaded guilty to assaulting his then-girlfriend Rihanna. He has toured Australia twice since, but the government is under pressure to refuse him this time.

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Australia’s immigration department has issued a “notice of intention to consider refusal”, Immigration Minister Peter Dutton said.

Chris Brown has 28 days to present a case as to why he should be granted a visa, after which a final decision will be made.

Minister for Women Michaelia Cash, who was until recently assistant immigration minister, had urged Peter Dutton to take a stand on the issue.

“People need to understand, if you are going to commit domestic violence and you want to travel around the world, there are going to be countries that say to you, <<You cannot come in because you are not of the character that we expect in Australia>>,” Senator Michaelia Cash said.

The decision about chris Brown’s visa follows the government’s decision earlier this year to refuse a visa for world champion boxer Floyd Mayweather on similar grounds.

New Zealand has already ruled that Chris Brown is unsuitable for entry into the country.

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Chris Brown may be blocked from entering Australia because of his domestic violence conviction.

The singer’s announcement last week he would tour in December sparked criticism on social media and an online petition.

The Federal government said on September 24 it was reviewing Chris Brown’s visa application in light of his conviction.

Australia’s Minister for Women, Senator Michaelia Cash, said the government was not afraid to “say no”.

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“People need to understand, if you are going to commit domestic violence and you want to travel around the world, there are going to be countries that say to you, <<You cannot come in because you are not of the character that we expect in Australia>>,” Michaelia Cash said.

The senator’s comments were made at a press conference in Melbourne where PM Malcolm Turnbull announced a national domestic violence prevention program.

The review of Chris Brown’s visa follows the Australian government’s decision earlier this year to refuse a visa for world champion boxer Floyd Mayweather on similar grounds.

Floyd Mayweather, 37, had been booked for dinner and nightclub appearances in Sydney and Melbourne in January.

He has a criminal record, which includes serving two months in jail in 2012, after pleading guilty to an assault on his former partner in front of their children.

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NFL boss Roger Goodell has said he “got it wrong” in dealing with the violence scandals that have plagued the American football league.

In his first public statement in a week, Roger Goodell apologized for his mistakes and pledged to implement new personal conduct policies.

“We strongly condemn and will punish behavior that is totally unacceptable,” he said.

He has faced calls to resign after a series of assaults involving players.

The commissioner said on Friday he had not considered stepping down and that he had the support of the team owners.

“We will get our house in order,” Roger Goodell said at a press conference in New York.

Roger Goodell announced the NFL plans to set up a new personal conduct committee and draft new rules for the league’s players and staff, which he hoped would be in place for the Super Bowl in early 2015.

The NFL, and Roger Goodell in particular, have been criticized over their handling of an abuse case involving running back Ray Rice from the Baltimore Ravens.

Roger Goodell has said he got it wrong in dealing with the violence scandals that have plagued the NFL

Roger Goodell has said he got it wrong in dealing with the violence scandals that have plagued the NFL

Roger Goodell initially banned Ray Rice for two games after video emerged of him punching his then-fiancée in the face and knocking her out in a lift in Atlantic City in February.

It was only after the video was posted online in August that Ray Rice was cut by the Ravens and banned from the league indefinitely by Roger Goodell.

“I got it wrong in the handling of the Ray Rice matter,” he said on September 19.

“But now I will get it right and do whatever is necessary to accomplish that.”

The NFL has also come under fire for its handling of other abuse cases, including Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson, who has been charged with child abuse in Texas after allegedly whipping his four-year-old son.

In recent days, some NFL sponsors have made public statements urging it to do more to address the issue.

On September 19, Procter & Gamble announced it was dropping an on-field breast cancer awareness promotion it had been planning with the NFL.

“Domestic violence is completely unacceptable and we have strongly urged the NFL to take swift and decisive action to address this issue,” said a spokesman.

“Our decision to cancel this on field activity was related to this ongoing issue.”

Other sponsors like PepsiCo and Anheuser-Busch have expressed concern. Women make up about 35% of the average television audience of games.

Roger Goodell said NFL staff would be required to undergo training on the prevention of domestic violence and sexual assault starting within 30 days.

Roger Goodell said the league will partner with the National Domestic Violence Hotline and National Sexual Violence Resource Center.

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Arizona Cardinals’ running back Jonathan Dwyer has been arrested on suspicion of domestic violence, police have said.

Jonathan Dwyer, 25, facing charges of aggravated assault and preventing someone from calling 911, has been suspended from the team.

The charges are from two altercations at his home in July involving a woman and an 18-month-old child.

Jonathan Dwyer’s arrest comes after a recent spate of high profile assault incidents involving American football players.

Earlier this month Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice was suspended indefinitely after a video emerged of him knocking out his then-fiancée.

After Ray Rice was suspended, Minnesota Vikings star running back Adrian Peterson was indicted on child-abuse charges.

Critics have been calling on NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell to step down after Ray Rice initially received just a two-game ban for his assault.

Earlier this week the league announced it is hiring four women as advisers on domestic violence.

Arizona Cardinals’ running back Jonathan Dwyer has been arrested on suspicion of domestic violence

Arizona Cardinals’ running back Jonathan Dwyer has been arrested on suspicion of domestic violence (photo USA Today)

Across the country, outrage has been palpable.

Many fans have announced they are turning their backs on the NFL.

Fantasy leagues have been disbanded.

Even the league’s own television outlets, such as Fox, CBS and ESPN, have been sharply critical.

One of the counts against Jonathan Dwyer was “aggravated assault causing a fracture” against the 27-year-old woman.

Another count was for aggravated assault against a minor, said Phoenix Police Sergeant Trent Crump.

Sergeant Trent Crump said police were called to Dwyer’s home on July 21 after neighbors reported a row.

They discussed the incident with the woman, but did not talk to Jonathan Dwyer, who was hiding in the home, said Sergeant Trent Crump.

The second physical altercation happened at Jonathan Dwyer’s home the following day.

After the woman was assaulted, Jonathan Dwyer took a shoe and threw it at the couple’s 18-month-old child, said the police officer.

The victim and the child have subsequent “fled the state” because of safety concerns, he added.

The Cardinals reacted to the arrest by announcing that Jonathan Dwyer has been suspended for this week’s games against the 49ers.

“We became aware of these allegations this afternoon when notified by Phoenix police and are cooperating fully,” the team said in a statement.

“Given the serious nature of the allegations we have taken the immediate step to deactivate Jonathan from all team activities. We will continue to closely monitor this as it develops and evaluate additional information as it becomes available.”

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Emma Roberts was arrested for domestic violence for allegedly hitting her boyfriend Evan Peters.

The niece of Julia Roberts was taken into custody on July 7 in Montreal, Canada, after getting into a fight with her beau that left Evan Peters bloody, according to TMZ.

Police were called after someone reported a fight in the couple’s hotel room and found Evan Peters, 26, with a bloody nose.

Emma Roberts, 22, was released hours after her arrest because Evan Peters declined to press charges, according to TMZ‘s report.

Emma Roberts was arrested for domestic violence for allegedly hitting her boyfriend Evan Peters

Emma Roberts was arrested for domestic violence for allegedly hitting her boyfriend Evan Peters

Evan Peters and Emma Roberts were said to be hitting each other and she was arrested because he had obvious physical injuries, a source told the website.

A law enforcement source said Evan Peters also had a bite mark, but a source close to Emma Roberts denied the actress bit him.

Emma Roberts and Evan Peters are now reportedly back together and are working on Peters’ hit show American Horror Story.

The pair met last year on the set of Adult World and have been spotted in public displays of affection since becoming a couple.

Evan Peters has called Emma Roberts “the love of my life” and stars in FX’s hit horror show while his girlfriend has a recurring role.

Emma Roberts is the daughter of Eric Roberts, an actor best known for his work in 1985’s Runaway Train and his troubles with drug abuse.

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E.L. James bestseller Fifty Shades of Grey took the world by storm, selling more than 3.2 million copies up to now.

Now, the novel is being offered as the subject of a course at American University (AU).

Sex educator and AU professor Stef Woods will teach “Contemporary American Culture: The 50 Shades Trilogy”, to 25 students starting in January, successfully turning popular culture into a subject of academia.

According to the Daily Beast, she will use the trilogy and related readings to tackle issues of domestic violence, female sexuality, and objectivity, as well as looking at how social media marketing is used in the promotion and success of contemporary novels.

Stef Woods outlined the curriculum on her blog, City Girl, which will ask students to critically analyze and answer questions like “Evaluate the relationship in the book in light of our readings on domestic violence.”

“Are the leads in the trilogy in a healthy or abusive relationship? Why or why not?”

And also, “What was the role of social media in perpetuating the trilogy’s success? If you were in charge of marketing the upcoming movies, how would you utilize social media?”

The class already has a waiting list full of senior honor students, and at least 22 are female and are enrolled in the school or communications or are studying sexuality, according to Stef Woods.

Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy becomes subject of a course at American University

Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy becomes subject of a course at American University

According to the Daily Beast, “students will also be asked to rewrite one of the introductory chapters, before Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey consummate their relationship, with an aim to improving it”.

Stef Woods argues that editing and sub-editing are useful tools ‘in almost any job’.

“Someone who has just graduated will be tasked with editing and proofreading and reviewing over and over again for their superiors in the office,” she said.

American University isn’t the only education institution to recognize “what’s driving American culture and how to study that critically”, Stef Woods added.

The Daily Beast noted that Brown University’s fall 2012 course Human Sexuality in a Social Context used Fifty Shades of Grey alongside Foucault’s The History of Sexuality and Mary Roach’s science journalism book Bonk, in the required reading.

Meanwhile the American Studies department Macalester College includes Hunger Games: Map and Mirror for the 21st Century, and the University of Delaware’s English department offers Fighting the Future From The Hunger Games to The Matrix: The Dystopian Tradition in the 21st Century.

“I love when people incorporate social media and pop culture because that’s how the field is ever evolving. It makes academia more relevant; you want something that resonates with students and inspires them to think in different ways,” said Stef Woods.

As for the books’ explicit content, she said: “This is not a sex-shop book club. We’re not looking at how these characters can inspire us to expand our sexual boundaries… We’re looking at overall themes.

“We’re not doing dramatic readings, we’re not discussing personal preferences- mine or theirs.”

Stef Woods recently told the student newspaper, The Eagle: “No other contemporary text on sexuality has transformed American culture the way that this series has.

“It never crossed my mind to use another book for a case study.”

Dr. Shira Tarrant, associate professor of Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies at California State University, Long Beach, supports Stef Woods decision.

“That’s the world we live in, and it serves us well to know how to make sense of it with an awareness of gender, class, race, age, capitalism, and – of course – sexuality,” she said.

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Police were called after Lindsay Lohan got into a “violent fight” with her mother Dina in the early hours of Wednesday morning.

According to TMZ, law enforcement officers arrived at Dina Lohan’s Long Island home after receiving a complaint alleging that Lindsay was “being held against her will by Dina and her driver”.

Lindsay Lohan is alleged to have “sustained a cut on her leg” in the scuffle which happened after mother and daughter went to a nightclub together in New York City.

Lindsay Lohan, 26, and Dina, 50, left at 4:00 a.m. and “began arguing in the car”, before the row escalated and “became physical”.

TMZ also report that a bracelet belonging to Lindsay Lohan was broken and “some property damage” occurred in the fallout.

The 911 call was treated as a “domestic violence” call by police, who took a Domestic Incident Report but made no arrests.

Police were called after Lindsay Lohan got into a “violent fight” with her mother Dina

Police were called after Lindsay Lohan got into a “violent fight” with her mother Dina

According to the New York Post, the 911 call drew a “small army” of police to the house around 8:15 a.m.

Witness John Scalesi told the newspaper: “She [Lindsay] was yelling <<I’ve had enough of this!>>”

Nassau police Inspector Kenneth Lack told the newspaper: “It was just a verbal dispute in the vehicle. It was an argument between Lindsay Lohan and her mother Dina.

“Lindsay called her father and her father called police.”

Michael Lohan confirmed to the newspaper that Lindsay and Dina had been arguing in the car, but added: “It was a hell of a lot more than that.”

A photograph was taken earlier in the evening showing Lindsay Lohan in good spirits while posing with a random clubgoer at Electric Room, nightclub.

Lindsay Lohan, who appeared happy in relaxed in New York at the weekend, has been hitting the headlines for all the wrong reasons, despite trying to put her career back on track with Lifetime biopic Liz & Dick.

Most recently, she accused a fellow partygoer at a Manhattan nightclub of assaulting her after a late night out.

Dina Lohan has not managed to escape controversy herself, recently appearing on psychologist Dr. Phil’s TV show, where she slurred her words and appeared agitated.

She even flipped her middle finger at the TV host after he became frustrated with her seeming inability to answer his questions directly.

Dina Lohan strongly denied the accusations, telling TMZ: “I don’t care what it looks like. I’m fine and I don’t care what anyone says.”

She claims clever editing was to blame.

 

 

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A marriage guide book for Muslim couples written by Maulavi Ashraf Ali Thanvi has sparked outrage by advising men on the best ways to beat their wives.

A Gift For Muslim Couple tells husbands that they should beat their wives with “hand or stick or pull her by the ears”.

But the book has faced a backlash from moderate Muslims who claim that it encourages domestic violence.

The 160-page book claims to be a “presentation for newlyweds” or couples who have been together for some years.

The book author, Maulavi Ashraf Ali Thanvi, is understood to be a prominent Islamic scholar.

The guide’s blurb says: “The book… deals with the subject of marriage and after marriage relationship, as well as the various pitfalls of marriage, causes of breakdown and their causes.”

It also claims to give “real life incidents” and advises on “different aspects of family life and how to run the institution of marriage successfully”.

A Gift For Muslim Couple tells husbands that they should beat their wives with “hand or stick or pull her by the ears”

A Gift For Muslim Couple tells husbands that they should beat their wives with “hand or stick or pull her by the ears”

But within the book’s opening pages it states that “it might be necessary to restrain her with strength or even to threaten her”.

It continues: “The husband should treat the wife with kindness and love, even if she tends to be stupid and slow sometimes.’”

The author then gives the “rights of the husband”. According to the book, these include his wife’s inability to leave “his house without his permission”.

The wife must then “fulfill his desires” and “not allow herself to be untidy … but should beautify herself for him”.

Worryingly, the book advises men that they should scold their wives. According to the book, they may also “beat by hand or stick, withhold money from her or pull (her) by the ears”.

However, it adds that men should “refrain from beating her excessively”.

The book came to light after going on sale in a Canadian book store. It is understood to have sold out there.

However, it is widely available from Islamic online book stores.

Canadian political campaigner Tarek Fatah said that the shop should be banned from stores.

“I wouldn’t say it’s hate, but it is inciting men to hit women,” Tarek Fatah told the Toronto Sun.