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The New Rules: dating manual is back with new game-playing guidelines for the digital era

Dating manual The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider tried to guide a generation of 90s feminists back to the old-fashioned courting ways of the 1950s.

And now they’re back in the form of The New Rules – this time with Rules for Facebook, texting and more.

The authors who told you not to talk to a man first and not to talk too much are back with another helping of severe Rules for the digital age.

Marketed as the “time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right”, the controversial bestseller, first published in 1995, polarized opinion.

While Elle magazine described it as “one of the best self-help books of all time”, Jezebel called it “sexist garbage”.

The success of The Rules seems to be hit and miss, too.

They didn’t work for Blake Lively.

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Back in August 2011 she was rumored to have turned to the cult dating manual to hook Leonardo DiCaprio.

Not calling him, making him jealous and acting “busy” are just some of the commandments in the 1995 book that Blake Lively reportedly heeded to win Leonardo DiCaprio over.

A friend of Blake Lively’s told Now Magazine: “Blake loves dating book The Rules and has been following it to the letter.

“She knew Leo could have any girl he wanted and she figured she had to stand out from the crowd.”

The relationship fizzled, however, and the couple split after five months of dating.

For happily married Beyoncé, however, The Rules seem to have worked wonders.

Quoted on the back of their first book, the singer says: “It has worked for me.”

The authors say there are now even more ways to “unwittingly mess up your dating life”.

With the emergence texting, Facebook, Twitter, Skype, BBM, iPhones and online dating, Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider have added extra tips and chapters to guide Rules women through this type of communication and how to stick to The Rules.

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider reinforce the principle that men thrive on being the aggressor and appreciate a woman who sets boundaries.

But critics say they are outdated, sexist, anti-feminist – and that they confuse and mislead men.

Rules Girls, say Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider are “savvy women who know how to return texts and emails to a man without seeming desperate, how to maintain a cool Facebook profile without giving away too much and how to spot cheaters and players, and avoid them like the plague”.

The Rules mainly preach the notion that women should play hard to get in order to get their Mr. Right.

TOP TEN RULES TO BAG A MAN

  1. Be a creature unlike any other
    Possess a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe
  2. Go to parties and events even if you don’t feel like it
    You won’t meet Mr. Right sitting at home
  3. It’s a fantasy relationship unless a man asks you out
    If he never asks you out, he’s not interested
  4. In an office romance, do not email him back unless it is business related
    You never know who has access to your emails
  5. In a long-distance relationship, he must visit you three times before you visit him
    It’s the equivalent of three dates, so no sex or sleep-overs either
  6. When placing a personal ad online, wait for men to respond to you
    Men should always pursue women first
  7. If he does not call, he is not interested
    Bottom line
  8. Don’t date a man for over two years
    You’ve already spent more than a year waiting for him to propose; do you have another year to wait?
  9. Observe his behavior so you don’t end up with Mr. Wrong
    Is he cheap? Or overly critical?
  10. Keep doing the rules even when things are slow
    Take care of yourself, take a bubble bath and build up your soul with positive slogans like “I am a beautiful woman. I am enough.”

Source: therulesbook.com

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Russian opposition leaders Alexei Navalny, Ilya Yashin, Ksenia Sobchak and Sergei Udaltsov arrested at anti-Putin rally

Police arrested prominent Russian opposition leaders at a rally against President Vladimir Putin in Moscow
Police arrested prominent Russian opposition leaders at a rally against President Vladimir Putin in Moscow

Police arrested prominent Russian opposition leaders at a rally against President Vladimir Putin in Moscow.

Blogger and activist Alexei Navalny said on Twitter he had been detained at the rally in Lubyanka Square, which was banned by the authorities.

Fellow opposition leaders Ilya Yashin, Ksenia Sobchak and Left Front head Sergei Udaltsov were also arrested.

Police eventually broke up the rally, one of several nationwide that marked a year of protests against Vladimir Putin.

Alexei Navalny later tweeted that he and the other opposition leaders had been released without charge.

In all, 40 people were arrested, police said.

Reports said police cleared the square by moving protesters towards a nearby metro station.

Alexei Navalny, who has been one of the most vocal anti-Putin campaigners, tweeted: “This is the traditional and not very original tweet from the police detention van.

“It’s raving mad. They snatched me out from the crowd.”

 

There was a large police presence for the rally, which took place in freezing temperatures outside the headquarters of the Federal Security Service, which is the main successor agency of the Soviet KGB.

Police arrested Ilya Yashin, a leading figure in the Solidarity movement and TV presenter Ksenia Sobchak as they made their way to the rally.

Ilya Yashin confirmed their arrest on Twitter, with a heavy dose of irony.

“Came with Ksenia Sobchak for a stroll on the Lubyanka Square. The police decided we were too cold and put us into a detention van,” he wrote.

Reuters reported that Sergei Udaltsov raised a fist in the air as police grabbed him under the arms and hauled him away into a waiting van.

The protesters had gone to place flowers on a small monument in the square to victims of Soviet repression.

They laid flowers not only to honor victims of the past but as a warning that repression is returning, he says.

Opposition “Freedom March” rallies also took place in other Russian cities on Saturday, Interfax news agency reported.

In St Petersburg, more than 25 people were arrested in a protest that had been allowed by city officials, Interfax said.

Other large rallies were reported in Tomsk and Yekaterinburg.

Earlier this week, Vladimir Putin used his annual state-of-the nation address to suggest that some opposition politicians were being paid by outside, foreign interests.

Legal action against opposition figures has increased markedly since Vladimir Putin was re-elected to a third term in March.

On Friday, Alexei Navalny was charged with fraud and money laundering – the second criminal case against him.

A tough new law has passed on public order offences and tight curbs have been placed on non-governmental organizations.

Last winter saw the biggest anti-government demonstrations in Moscow since the fall of the Soviet Union, with protesters accusing Vladimir Putin’s allies of rigging the parliamentary elections in 2011.

Peshawar airport rocket attack kills at least two people in Pakistan

At least two people have been killed after militants fired rockets at Peshawar airport, Pakistani officials say.

More than 20 others were injured after the rockets landed in residential areas close to the airport.

Security forces at the airport are reported to have fired back.

Peshawar is located on the edge of Pakistan’s tribal region, the major sanctuary for al-Qaida and Taliban militants.

Women and children are among the dead and injured.

Three rockets landed in residential areas close to the airport.

Peshawar is located on the edge of Pakistan's tribal region, the major sanctuary for al-Qaida and Taliban militants
Peshawar is located on the edge of Pakistan’s tribal region, the major sanctuary for al-Qaida and Taliban militants

The airport is used as a base by the Pakistan Air Force as well as for commercial flights.

It is not clear if the militants entered the airport.

The information minister of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa province told journalists that the airport had been cordoned off but the situation was still unclear.

It is not yet known who was responsible for the attack.

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Nelson Mandela undergoes gallstones removal surgery

Nelson Mandela, South Africa’s first black president, has had an operation to remove gallstones, a government statement says.

The operation was successful and Nelson Mandela is recovering.

Nelson Mandela, who is 94, was admitted to hospital last Saturday after suffering a recurrence of a lung infection.

Tests revealed the presence of gallstones and doctors treating Nelson Mandela decided to remove them once he had recovered from the infection.

The statement claimed: “This morning, 15 December 2012, the former president underwent a procedure via endoscopy to have the gall stones removed. The procedure was successful and (Nelson Mandela) is recovering.”

Nelson Mandela has had an operation to remove gallstones
Nelson Mandela has had an operation to remove gallstones

A gallstone is an accumulation of crystals in the gall bladder. If left untreated, it can become life-threatening because of the risks of secondary infections such as pancreatitis.

Nelson Mandela is regarded by most South Africans as the father of the nation, having inspired them to fight for democracy.

He led the struggle against white-minority rule before being elected the first black president in 1994.

Despite being imprisoned for 27 years by the apartheid government, Nelson Mandela forgave his former enemies and urged South Africans of all races to work together and seek reconciliation.

Nelson Mandela was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1993.

Connecticut shooting heroes: Dawn Hochsprung, Mary Sherlach and Victoria Soto sacrificed their lives to protect pupils

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Three teachers murdered at Sandy Hook Elementary School all died heroes trying to save their students from gunman Adam Lanza who they recognized as the son of a kindergarten teacher there.

Authorities have identified principal Dawn Hochsprung, 47, school psychologist Mary Sherlach, 56, and 27-year-old Victoria Soto, a young first grade teacher, as three of the eight adults found dead on Friday.

Twenty-eight people died in the shooting rampage, including 20 young children between the ages of five and ten, alleged gunman Adam Lanza, who took his own life, and his mother Nancy, who was shot before the school massacre.

Victoria Soto sacrificed herself to save her students – throwing her body in front of the young children.

When Adam Lanza began started firing at the school in suburban Newtown, Connecticut, some teachers dived under tables – but Dawn Hochsprung and Mary Sherlach never hesitated.

They ran into the hallway to confront the danger – and were murdered execution-style as a result.

Victoria Soto sacrificed herself to save her students, throwing her body in front of the young children
Victoria Soto sacrificed herself to save her students, throwing her body in front of the young children

The New York Times reports that Dawn Hochsprung buzzed Adam Lanza into the school, bypassing the newly-installed security system – recognizing him as the son of Nancy Lanza, a teacher there.

Little did she know that Adam Lanza had already killed his mother at the home they shared nearby. He took three of her guns and used her car to drive to the school.

Diane Day, a school therapist, told the Wall Street Journal that she and several other teachers were in a meeting with Dawn Hochsprung and Mary Sherlach when the shooting began.

“We were there for about five minutes chatting and we heard, <<pop pop pop>>,” she said.

“I went under the table.”

The principal and the school psychologist had other ideas. They jumped out of their seat and ran toward the sound of the gunfire.

“They didn’t think twice about confronting or seeing what was going on,” Diane Day said.

Rabbi Shaul Praver told MSNBC that Dawn Hochsprung and Mary Sherlach were killed execution-style.

Tributes for all educators poured in on Friday night.

A deeply distraught 10-year-old boy is a former student of Victoria Soto, who had taught at the school five years, said she was “really nice and funny”.

The woman’s cousin, Jim Wiltsie, told ABC News that police said the 27-year-old was trying to shield her students and usher them into a closet when she came face to face with the gunman.

“She put herself between the gunman and the children and that’s when she was tragically shot and killed,” Jim Wiltsie said.

“I’m just proud that Vicki had the instincts to protect her kids from harm,’ he continued.

“It brings peace to know that Vicki was doing what she loved, protecting the children and in our eyes she’s a hero,” he added.

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Adam Lanza stole his mother’s guns and shot her dead before murdering 20 children and six staff at Sandy Hook school

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Adam Lanza, a troubled 20-year-old loner with a history of autistic behavior, is the monster behind a horrific shooting at a Connecticut elementary school that left 26 people, including 20 children, dead on Friday.

Adam Lanza shot his mother Nancy, a kindergarten teacher, at the upscale suburban home they shared together and then took three of her guns and drove the Sandy Hook Elementary School about 9:30 a.m.

He used two semi-automatic pistols, a Glock and Sig Sauer, and reportedly wiped out an entire classroom of young children and shot several in a second class before taking his own life.

Witnesses say Adam Lanza was going from room-to-room shooting people after first killing the principal Dawn Hochsprung and psychologist execution-style after they confronted him in the hallway.

Parents who have not been united with their children are assuming the worst. One witness told WCBS: “Police just told us everyone presumed missing is in the school and they are dead.”

Students described being ushered from their classrooms hand-in-hand, with their eyes closed, to the safety of a nearby fire station as police converged on the school.

Adam Lanza’s brother Ryan, 24, who was originally thought to have been the shooter, is being questioned by police after he was arrested at his home in Hoboken, New Jersey.

Ryan Lanza was on a bus on his way home from work when he was being named as the gunman and posted on Facebook that it wasn’t him.

He told a friend he believed his mentally disabled brother did it. Adam Lanza is believed to be autistic.

Another relative told ABC Adam Lanza had been “obviously not well” and Beth Israel, tonight tweeted that her daughter went to school with him and he was “troubled for a long time”.

Alex Israel spoke to CNN about how she went to school with Adam Lanza and she described him as fidgety, and a quiet loner who kept to himself.

Adam Lanza is the monster behind a horrific shooting at a Connecticut elementary school that left 26 people dead on Friday
Adam Lanza is the monster behind a horrific shooting at a Connecticut elementary school that left 26 people dead on Friday

She also said he was a highly intelligent student, “above the rest of us”.

But she said he was never violent.

She tweeted earlier in the day that he was “crazy”.

The gunman’s father Peter Lanza, who is divorced from his wife, lives in Stamford, Connecticut, and declined to comment this evening after police performed a welfare check on him.

Neighbors said he recently remarried.

Peter Lanza learned of the tragic and senseless massacre by reporters who had flocked to his home.

He arrived shortly after police left and asked what the problem was.

The Stamford Connecticut said his expression shifted from patient to surprise to horror.

Newtown was once named one of the safest places to live in America and before this morning, there had been one murder in a decade.

The President addressed a stunned nation five hours after the shooting and openly wept as he spoke of the mindless shooting saying: “Our hearts are broken today.”

Seldom has a head of state expressed greater public emotion in modern times.

Barack Obama struggled for words, pausing several times as he wiped away tears saying: “This evening, Michelle and I will…hug our children a little tighter, and we’ll tell them that we love them.”

Adam Lanza is believed to have shot himself at the scene, according to the New York Times.

He was carrying three weapons including two handguns and a rifle and was wearing a bullet-proof vest, a mask and black military gear.

Three guns were found at the scene – a Glock and a Sig Sauer, both pistols – and a .223-caliber rifle.

The rifle was recovered from the back of a car at the school. The two pistols were recovered from inside the school. They were legally registered to Nancy Lanza.

A number of children were found hiding in closets in the school five hours after the shooting.

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Connecticut shooting: Grace McDonnell and Ana Marquez-Greene are the first child victims named

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The two children named victims of the Newtown school massacre so far are two 6-year-old girls, Grace McDonnell and Ana Marquez-Greene.

Ana Marquez-Greene and her older brother had attended Linden Christian School nearby, before moving with their parents to Newtown in July and enrolling at Sandy Hook Elementary School in the fall.

Both she and her brother were inside the school when the shooter opened fire, Sun News in Canada reports.

Ana Marquez-Greene’s father is Canadian jazz musician Jimmy Greene.

Grace McDonnell has been described as “utterly adorable” and “full of life”.

She had eyes that were so blue and hair that was so blonde that friends thought she looked like a “little doll”.

But now after she was shot dead in the mass slaying her parents are going through “indescribable” pain.

The two children named victims of the Newtown school massacre so far are two 6-year-old girls, Grace McDonnell and Ana Marquez-Greene
The two children named victims of the Newtown school massacre so far are two 6-year-old girls, Grace McDonnell and Ana Marquez-Greene

In another chilling twist Lynn McDonnell, 45, a housewife, and Christopher, 49, a business executive, live in a $500,000 detached home in Sandy Hook, Connecticut that is just one street away from where alleged shooter Adam Lanza lived.

From their front window they can almost see the home where the man who allegedly murdered their daughter is said to have slain his own mother before embarking on the murderous spree.

The only consolation for the McDonnells is that they have another son, Jack, 11, who is alive and well.

Neighbor Dorothy Werden, 49, a stay at home mother, said: “I just choke up when I think about it. Grace was like a little doll. She was utterly adorable.

“I used to see her waiting for the school bus over the road from our house every day.

“She had blonde hair and blue eyes – she was like a little Barbie doll.

“When I saw Lynn and Christopher at the school with Lynn being held up by a nun I knew things were not good. I can’t imagine what they are going through.”

A male neighbor who declined to be named said: “What they are going through is indescribable. We are very close. It’s just awful.”

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Jacintha Saldanha memorial service held at the King Edward VII hospital

A memorial service has been held at the King Edward VII hospital for Jacintha Saldanha, who took a hoax call about Kate Middleton’s treatment.

Jacintha Saldanha was found dead last Friday, three days after taking the call from two Australian radio DJs.

A memorial mass also took place in Jacintha Saldanha’s adopted hometown of Bristol.

The hospital has defended its actions after the Guardian reported Jacintha Saldanha had criticized staff in one of her three suicide notes.

A spokeswoman said she had been given support by management.

Chief executive of the hospital, John Lofthouse, said: “King Edward VII’s is a small hospital, with a tight-knit team. Everybody knew Jacintha, and we were all left deeply shocked by her tragic death following the hoax telephone call.

“This service was a chance for everyone here to pay their respects and remember a dear colleague.”

A memorial service has been held at the King Edward VII hospital for Jacintha Saldanha, who took a hoax call about Kate Middleton's treatment
A memorial service has been held at the King Edward VII hospital for Jacintha Saldanha, who took a hoax call about Kate Middleton’s treatment

Jacintha Saldanha, a 46-year-old wife and mother of two, transferred the telephone call on 4 December to a colleague who then gave a detailed update on Kate Middleton’s condition to the hoaxers.

Kate Middleton, who is in the early stages of pregnancy, was receiving treatment at the hospital for hyperemesis gravidarum, an extreme form of morning sickness.

On Thursday, an inquest at Westminster’s Coroner Court heard that Jacintha Saldanha was found hanged in her nurse’s quarters in central London.

A hospital spokeswoman said she could not comment on the Guardian‘s report on the content of Jacintha Saldanha’s suicide notes as no-one had seen them.

She said: “Following the hoax call, hospital management offered her their support and told her that they considered her to be the victim of a cruel hoax, and that they stood by her actions.”

Labour MP Keith Vaz, who is representing Jacintha Saldanha’s family, has written to the hospital’s chief executive calling for him to release the “full facts” of what happened.

Writing in reply to Keith Vaz, John Lofthouse said: “Jacintha believed that the call was genuine, and she felt it appropriate to put the call through. We stand by her judgment.

“Following the hoax call, Jacintha was reassured on a number of occasions by senior management that no blame was attached to her actions and that there were no disciplinary issues involved, because she had been the victim of a cruel trick.”

In an earlier statement, the hospital said it had met her family earlier in the week and answered all of their questions in full.

“We are continuing to support the family in a number of ways,” it said.

On Saturday, a mass is also due to be held for Jacintha Saldanha at London’s Westminster Cathedral.

The mass will be offered “for the repose of the soul of Jacintha and her grieving family,” a spokesman said.

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Casablanca piano sold at Sotheby’s auction for more than $600,000

The piano that features in the classic 1940s film Casablanca has been sold for more than $600,000 at Sotheby’s auction in New York.

The upright piano appears in one of the film’s most iconic scenes, in which Humphrey Bogart’s character Rick utters the line: “Here’s looking at you, kid.”

It was sold to an unknown buyer at Sotheby’s in New York.

The piano had been offered for sale by its Japanese collector owner to mark the film’s 70th anniversary.

The piano that features in the classic 1940s film Casablanca has been sold for more than $600,000 at Sotheby’s auction in New York
The piano that features in the classic 1940s film Casablanca has been sold for more than $600,000 at Sotheby’s auction in New York

It was expected to sell for as much as $1.2 million. The owner originally paid about $154,000 for the piano at auction in the late 1980s.

It is used in the film by pianist Sam, played by Dooley Wilson, to play the song As Time Goes By during a key flashback scene set in a Paris bar.

Rick Blaine, played by Humphrey Bogart, delivers the famous line as he and Ingrid Bergman’s character Ilsa Lund lean on the piano, toasting with glasses of champagne.

The piano’s sale marks the 70th anniversary of the Oscar-winning World War II classic, which is largely set in the Moroccan port city of Casablanca, then part of unoccupied French North Africa.

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Egypt votes on new constitution

Egyptians have begun voting on a new constitution endorsed by the Islamist president Mohamed Morsi, which has divided the country and sparked deadly unrest.

President Mohammed Morsi and his Muslim Brotherhood have campaigned heavily in favor of the draft document, which may define Egypt for years to come.

Opponents say it is poorly drafted and overly favors Islamists.

The opposition National Salvation Front coalition has accused the Muslim Brotherhood of trying to rig the vote.

However, the ballot, which is staggered over Saturday and a second day of voting in a week’s time, appears to be going smoothly with indications of a high turnout.

Many people said they were voting for the restoration of stability in Egypt.

Saturday’s voting takes place in Cairo, Alexandria and eight other provinces, a week before the rest of the country.

Some 250,000 security personnel have been deployed to safeguard a referendum in which more than 51 million people are registered to vote.

Polling reportedly had to be spread out because few judges were willing to supervise the referendum but human rights groups have expressed fears the results from the first round could sway the opinion of those voting in the second.

Egyptians have begun voting on a new constitution endorsed by the Islamist president Mohamed Morsi, which has divided the country and sparked deadly unrest
Egyptians have begun voting on a new constitution endorsed by the Islamist president Mohamed Morsi, which has divided the country and sparked deadly unrest

A constitution must be in place before elections can be held early next year.

Mohamed Morsi was elected president in June with just over half of the vote, more than a year after Hosni Mubarak was overthrown in a popular revolt in Egypt, the most populous country in the Arab world.

The referendum is more than a vote on obscure clauses – it is about whether Egypt should be an Islamic country or a secular one.

The simple ballot paper just asks if Egyptians support or oppose the new constitution. Supporters include President Mohamed Morsi, who voted near the presidential palace in the Cairo district of Heliopolis, the Muslim Brotherhood and most other Islamists.

Opponents include liberals and others who want a more secular future for Egypt. Some of them say the new constitution would take away some of the new freedoms hard won in last year’s revolution.

Voters interviewed by Reuters news agency in Cairo were hopeful the vote would bring some calm to Egypt.

“I see this as a positive step for the country… a good base that we can start to work from,” said one, Ahmed Gindy.

In the northern port city of Alexandria, where there were clashes on Friday between rival activists fighting with clubs, stones and other weapons, Mohamed Ewais explained why he was voting “No”.

“I cannot accept a constitution with very limited, very limited actually, rights for minorities, rights for women, rights for even children,” he told the Associated Press news agency.

“It’s not suitable for Egypt, actually. We are taking about a country that has been in place for over 210 years as a modern state.”

Outside Cairo the situation has been calm amid high turnout:

  • In Alexandria, long queues formed at polling stations and voters complained about the waiting time
  • In Mahalla, a city in the Delta that has seen big anti-Morsi demonstrations, polling stations were heaving with people, with heated political discussions outside the voting booths
  • In Assiut, Upper Egypt, where the Muslim Brotherhood is popular, there was tight security from the police and military, including tanks guarding some polling stations

The violence in Alexandria reportedly broke out after a cleric at a mosque urged worshippers to vote “Yes”.

Clashes continued late into the evening, with police firing tear gas, and at least 15 people injured in the fighting.

President Mohamed Morsi has granted the army powers to arrest civilians.

Supporters of the draft constitution have accused the opposition of sowing “lies and discord” about the referendum.

The opposition National Salvation Front had vehemently opposed the referendum but this week said its supporters should go to the ballot boxes to vote “No”.

In a statement on Saturday, it expressed “deep concern… over the number of irregularities and violations in the holding of the referendum”.

This, it alleged, pointed to a “clear desire for vote-rigging by the Muslim Brotherhood”.

However, the Egyptian army’s chief of staff, Gen Sedky Sobhi, said he was satisfied with the situation inside and outside polling stations.

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Maurice Herzog, first person to conquer Mount Annapurna, dies aged 93

French mountaineering legend Maurice Herzog has died at the age of 93.

Maurice Herzog was famed as the first person to conquer a peak of 8,000 metres when he reached the summit of Annapurna in the Himalayas in 1950.

He told the story of the expedition, in which he lost his fingers and toes to frostbite, in a best-selling book.

Maurice Herzog died early on Friday, according to the president of the French Federation of Mountaineering and Climbing, Pierre You.

He had also spent 25 years as a member of the International Olympic Committee and was a former sports minister in France.

Maurice Herzog was famed as the first person to conquer a peak of 8,000 metres when he reached the summit of Annapurna in the Himalayas in 1950
Maurice Herzog was famed as the first person to conquer a peak of 8,000 metres when he reached the summit of Annapurna in the Himalayas in 1950

But he was best known for his historic Annapurna climb, made three years before Sir Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay conquered Mount Everest.

A photograph of Maurice Herzog waving a French tricolor at the summit was published in newspapers around the world.

Responding to news of Maurice Herzog’s death, French President Francois Hollande said the feat had been “engraved enduringly in our collective memory”.

“Our nation will miss Maurice Herzog,” he said.

Connecticut shooting: Barack Obama signals he will push for gun control after Sandy Hook School massacre

President Barack Obama today signaled he would push for tight gun control in the wake of the massacre of 26 at an elementary school in Connecticut, saying there had been “too many” mass shootings in America.

During a moving appearance, the president said the time had come to “take meaningful action to prevent more tragedies like this, regardless of the politics”.

Barack Obama struggled for words, pausing several times as he wept and described the “beautiful little kids between the ages of five and ten years old” slaughtered in the school massacre in Connecticut.

Seldom has a head of state expressed greater public emotion in modern times. White House aides held hands and also wept as they sat in the briefing room named after James Brady, the press aide wounded in 1981 when President Ronald Reagan was shot and who later became the nation’s leading gun control advocate.

Barack Obama was not the only one who showed deep emotion over the shooting. Parents lined up at schools across the country to pick up their children and make sure they made it home safely.

School administrators from Washington D.C. to Boston and Iowa issued statements assuring parents that they had stepped up security and that their schools were still safe.

In Charlestown, Massachusetts, Bob Carr showed up early at the elementary school his three daughters attend. He told the Boston Globe he wanted to be there when they got out of class.

Parents have already begun asking for more police officers and security guards to be posted at their children’s school.

In Washington, political meringue has also begun.

Behind the President’s emotion was a clear political message that Barack Obama, re-elected to a second and final presidential term, intended to limit the lawful possession of weapons, perhaps by pushing to reinstate the Clinton-era ban on so-called assault weapons.

“We’ve endured too many of these tragedies in the past few years,” Barack Obama said.

“And each time I learn the news, I react not as a president, but as anybody else would as a parent. And that was especially true today. I know there’s not a parent in America who doesn’t feel the same overwhelming grief that I do.

“The majority of those who died today were children – beautiful, little kids between the ages of 5 and 10 years old. They had their entire lives ahead of them – birthdays, graduations, weddings, kids of their own. Among the fallen were also teachers, men and women who devoted their lives to helping our children fulfill their dreams.

“So our hearts are broken today for the parents and grandparents, sisters and brothers of these little children, and for the families of the adults who were lost.

“Our hearts are broken for the parents of the survivors, as well, for as blessed as they are to have their children home tonight, they know that their children’s innocence has been torn away from them too early and there are no words that will ease their pain.”

President Barack Obama today signaled he would push for tight gun control in the wake of the massacre of 26 at an elementary school in Connecticut
President Barack Obama today signaled he would push for tight gun control in the wake of the massacre of 26 at an elementary school in Connecticut

Again, Barack Obama repeated that such events had happened “too many times”, citing other mass shootings. Whether it is an elementary school in Newtown, or a shopping mall in Oregon, or a temple in Wisconsin, or a movie theater in Aurora, or a street corner in Chicago, these neighborhoods are our neighborhoods and these children are our children.

“And we’re going to have to come together and take meaningful action to prevent more tragedies like this, regardless of the politics.”

That was a thinly-veiled message to Republicans, as well as conservative Democrats, that support for the Second Amendment constitutional right to bear arms should not be allowed to stand in the way of banning certain types of weapons or limiting background checks.

New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg, a prominent advocate of gun control, issued a statement on Friday criticizing the president Congress for failing to take action on the issue.

“President Obama rightly sent his heartfelt condolences to the families in Newtown. But the country needs him to send a bill to Congress to fix this problem,” Michael Bloomberg said in a statement.

“Calling for <<meaningful action>> is not enough. We need immediate action. We have heard all the rhetoric before. What we have not seen is leadership – not from the White House and not from Congress.”

The gun control debate was reignited in the immediate aftermath of Friday’s shooting, as every major TV network gathered panels of journalists and gun control experts to discuss the political implications for Washington.

The Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence, named after James Brady and one of the largest national organizations promoting stricter firearm laws, was urging people on Friday to sign an online petition supporting their cause.

“Another day, another horrific shooting eating away at our collective peace of mind – this time at a school in Connecticut,” said Brady Campaign President Dan Gross.

“What matters is not what we do after the sensational tragedies. It’s what we do between them – to make the voice of the American public heard.”

Americans are split on whether the U.S. needs greater controls on the sales and licensing of guns.

In fact, since 1990, more and more Americans believe that gun control laws should be less strict.

“The percentage in favor of making the laws governing the sale of firearms <<more strict>> fell from 78% in 1990 to 62% in 1995, and 51% in 2007,” Gallup reported.

“In the most recent reading, Gallup in 2010 found 44% in favor of stricter laws. In fact, in 2009 and again last year, the slight majority said gun laws should either remain the same or be made less strict.”

Barack Obama was forced to address the issue of gun control during the 2012 election campaign after a lone gunman – former neuroscience graduate student James Holmes – opened fire on a movie theatre in Aurora, Colorado, killing 12 people and wounding 70 others.

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America’s worst school massacres. A history of violence.

America’s worst school massacres

1. Virginia Tech – 32 dead plus the shooter
2007, April 16th, Blacksberg, Colorado
Student Seung Hui Cho, 23, killed two students in a dorm and then went through building of classrooms armed with two handguns, shooting at random before killing himself.

2. University of Texas – 16 dead plus shooter
1966, August 1st, Austin, Texas
Former Marine sniper Charles Whitman, 25, armed with an arsenal of weapons shot victims from the observation deck of the campus tower.

3. Columbine High School – 13 dead plus two shooters
1999 April 20th, Littleton, Colorado
Students Eric Harris, 18, and Dylan Klebold, 17, opened fire outside the school killing students and one teacher before shooting themselves in the library.

4. Red Lake High School – 9 dead plus shooter
2005 March 21st, Red Lake, Minnesota
Jeffrey Weise, 17, goes on a shooting spree at Red Lake High School killing nine people, including his grandfather, before shooting himself.

Virginia Tech massacre took place on April 16, 2007
Virginia Tech massacre took place on April 16, 2007

5. University of Iowa – five dead plus shooter
1991 November 1st, University of Iowa
Gang Lu, 27, a graduate student from China killed five with a .38-caliber revolver. He was apparently angry because his doctoral dissertation had not been nominated for an academic award.

6. Amish schoolhouse massacre – six dead plus shooter
2006 October 2nd, Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania
Charles Carl Roberts IV, 32, executes five girls aged 7 to 13 before killing himself in a small Amish schoolhouse

7. Jonesboro, Arkansas – five dead
1998 March 24th, Jonesboro, Arkansas
Mitchell Johnson, 10, and Andrew Golden, 8, took seven guns to school and pulled the fire alarm and shot students as they headed for the exits. Four died plus a teacher. The pair were sent to a juvenile detention center and released in 2005.

8. Cleveland Elementary School – five dead plus shooter
1989 January 17th, in Stockton, California
Patrick Edward Purdy entered a schoolyard and opened fire with a semiautomatic rifle at Cleveland Elementary School. Five children died and 30 others were wounded including one teacher. He then shot himself.

9. University of Arizona – three dead plus shooter
2002 October 28th, University of Arizona
Robert Flores, 40, a nursing student shot an instructor in her office before entering a classroom and killing two more teachers before committing suicide.

10. Kent State University – four dead
1970 May 4th, Kent State University in Ohio
National Guard troops killed four students who took part in anti-war protests on the campus of Kent State University in Ohio.

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Connecticut shooting: Maryrose Kristopik saved 15 children by barricading them into a closet while Adam Lanza hammered on door

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Maryrose Kristopik, a music teacher Sandy Hook Elementary School in Connecticut, managed to save 15 children during Friday’s shooting massacre by barricading them into a closet, while gunman Adam Lanza stood outside screaming “Let me in! Let me in!”.

Maryrose Kristopik has been hailed a “hero” by parents after herding the children to safety in a closet and barricading the door to prevent Adam Lanza, 20, from entering.

An unnamed mother, in her 40s, whose 9-year-old son was among the children said: “I want to thank her. She saved their lives.

“The shooter kept banging on the door screaming: <<Let me in! Let me in!>> but he didn’t get in.

“Now I have to explain to my nine-year-old son that his friends won’t be coming back. How am I supposed to do that?”

Brenda Lebinski said her 8-year-old daughter is safe thanks to the teacher’s decision to move all kids into a closet when a gunman had entered the building.

“My daughter’s teacher is my hero,” Brenda Lebinski said.

“She locked all the kids in a closet and that saved their lives.”

Alberta Bajraliu, 41, got a call from a friend who heard a gunshot at the school and told her to check it out.

Alberta Bajraliu’s 9-year-old daughter Venesa was at the school but her two other children are not.

She said: “I was one of the first there and they were bringing children out, carrying them out. One girl came out and her face was covered in blood and she had bits of meat from other people in her hair. It was terrible.

“Another girl just looked shocked. They brought one girl out and I thought it was my daughter. They asked me: <<Does she have black trousers?>> and I said no as Venesa had jeans.

“When I saw her I just felt so relieved. She has not spoken much about what happened. She said she was in an art class and the teacher closed the door and they were waiting until they could get out.”

Music teacher Maryrose Kristopik managed to save 15 children during Connecticut massacre by barricading them into a closet
Music teacher Maryrose Kristopik managed to save 15 children during Connecticut massacre by barricading them into a closet

Alberta Bajraliu also paid tribute to the school’s principal Dawn Hochsprung who is believed to have been killed. She said: “She would have done anything for her children.”

Josh Milas, 21, a former pupil at the school, also paid tribute to her and said: “She loved those kids. She was a great person.”

Another hero teacher was Kaitlin Roig, who barricaded her first grade students in classroom bathroom and locked the door when she first heard gunshots.

“The kids were being so good. They asked <<Can we go see if anyone is out there?>> <<…I just want Christmas…>> <<I don’t want to die, I just want to have Christmas>>. I said, <<You’re going to have Christmas and Hanukkah… I tried to be positive>>.”

Adam Lanza opened fire inside the Connecticut elementary school where his mother worked Friday, killing 26 people, including 18 children, and forcing students to cower in classrooms and then flee with the help of teachers and police.

The massacre is the nation’s second-deadliest school shooting, exceeded only by the Virginia Tech massacre in 2007, which left 32 people and the gunman dead.

Parents flooded to Sandy Hook Elementary School, about 60 miles northeast of New York City, looking for their children in the wake of the shooting. Students were told to close their eyes by police as they were led from the building.

A photo taken by The Newtown Bee newspaper showed a group of young students – some crying, others looking visibly frightened – being escorted by adults through a parking lot in a line, hands on each other’s shoulders.

Students and staff were among the victims, state police Lt. Paul Vance said a brief news conference. He also said the gunman was dead inside the school, but he refused to say how many people were killed.

A law enforcement official briefed on the shooting said the gunman died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound and that one of the victims was the man’s mother, a teacher. The official wasn’t authorized to speak about the investigation.

The attacker was a 20-year-old man armed with a .223-caliber rifle.

Robert Licata said his 6-year-old son was in class when the gunman burst in and shot the teacher.

“That’s when my son grabbed a bunch of his friends and ran out the door,” he said.

“He was very brave. He waited for his friends.”

He said the shooter didn’t say a word.

Stephen Delgiadice said his eight-year-old daughter heard two big bangs and teachers told her to get in a corner. His daughter was fine.

“It’s alarming, especially in Newtown, Connecticut, which we always thought was the safest place in America,” he said.

Danbury Hospital was the only hospital to take in victims from the shootings, admitting three patients. Doctors said at a news conference they cleared four trauma rooms to treat shooting victims.

Mergim Bajraliu, 17, heard the gunshots echo from his home and raced to check on his 9-year-old sister at the school. He said his sister, who was fine, heard a scream come over the intercom at one point. He said teachers were shaking and crying as they came out of the building.

“Everyone was just traumatized,” he said.

Richard Wilford’s 7-year-old son, Richie, is in the second grade at the school. His son told him that he heard a noise that “sounded like what he described as cans falling”.

The boy told him a teacher went out to check on the noise, came back in, locked the door and had the kids huddle up in the corner until police arrived.

“There’s no words,” Richard Wilford said.

“It’s sheer terror, a sense of imminent danger, to get to your child and be there to protect him.”

Melissa Makris, 43, said her 10-year-old son, Philip, was in the school gym.

“He said he heard a lot of loud noises and then screaming. Then the gym teachers immediately gathered the children in a corner and kept them safe in a corner,” Melissa Makris said.

The fourth-grader told his mother that the students stayed huddled until police came in the gym. He also told her that he saw what looked like a body under a blanket as he fled the school.

“He said the policeman came in and helped them get out of the building and told them to run,” Melissa Makris said.

“And they ran to the firehouse.”

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Adam Lanza identified as the gunman in Connecticut massacre

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Ryan Lanza, the brother of the Connecticut massacre gunman Adam Lanza, defended himself in a series of bizarre Facebook posts after he was mistakenly named as the killer when his ID was reportedly found at the scene.

Ryan Lanza, 24, seemed unaware that his younger brother, Adam Lanza, had gunned down 20 children and six adults at Sandy Hook Elementary School, in Newtown before taking his own life.

“Everyone shut the f*** up it wasn’t me,” Ryan Lanza insisted on his Facebook page on Friday.

“I’m on the bus home now it wasn’t me. IT WASN’T ME I WAS AT WORK IT WASN’T ME.”

The Associated Press said the mix-up came after an official mistakenly transposed the brothers’ first names, while a New Jersey reporter said Ryan Lanza told him the killer may have had his ID.

He is now being questioned by police in Hoboken, New Jersey, but police said he is not a suspect.

Adam Lanza, 20, was dressed in black military gear and a bullet proof vest when he opened fire in the principal’s office and then moving to a kindergarten classroom where his mother, Nancy, taught.

Sources told the New York Post that Adam Lanza had “had a dispute with” his mother, who was found dead at her home. He then drove to the school in her car and gunned down her kindergarten class, Fox reported.

Adam Lanza died of a self-inflicted gun wound at the scene. The Newtown Patch reported that he may have been developmentally disabled.

After Adam Lanza unleashed terror on the elementary school – the second biggest in U.S. history – the body of his father was reportedly found at their home in Newton at 2:00 p.m.

The Associated Press reported that Adam Lanza’s girlfriend and another friend are missing in New Jersey.

Ryan Lanza, the brother of the Connecticut massacre gunman Adam Lanza, defended himself in a series of bizarre Facebook posts after he was mistakenly named as the killer
Ryan Lanza, the brother of the Connecticut massacre gunman Adam Lanza, defended himself in a series of bizarre Facebook posts after he was mistakenly named as the killer

Police surrounded a Hoboken apartment, believed to be the home of Ryan Lanza, on Grand Street on Friday afternoon.

According to sources, he drove to the scene of the shootings in his mother’s car and opened fire at 9:41 a.m. on Friday.

Three guns were found at the scene – a Glock and a Sig Sauer, both pistols – and a .223-caliber rifle. The rifle was recovered from the back of a car at the school. The two pistols were recovered from inside the school.

The identities of the other victims have not yet been released but include the school principal, Dawn Hochsprung, and psychologist. Two of the children died while on the way to hospital.

Robert Licata said his six-year-old son was in class when the gunman burst in and shot the teacher.

“That’s when my son grabbed a bunch of his friends and ran out the door,” he said.

“He was very brave. He waited for his friends.”

Stephen Delgiadice said his eight-year-old daughter heard two big bangs and teachers told her to get in a corner. His daughter was fine.

“It’s alarming, especially in Newtown, Connecticut, which we always thought was the safest place in America,” he said.

A dispatcher at the Newtown Volunteer Ambulance Corps said a teacher had been shot in the foot and taken to Danbury Hospital.

Andrea Rynn, a spokeswoman at the hospital, said it had three patients from the school but she did not have information on the extent or nature of their injuries.

Mergim Bajraliu, 17, heard the gunshots echo from his home and raced to check on his 9-year-old sister at the school. He said his sister, who was fine, heard a scream come over the intercom at one point. He said teachers were shaking and crying as they came out of the building.

“Everyone was just traumatized,” he said.

The shooting is the latest in a series of high-profile gun crimes in American schools and colleges that is especially shocking given the age of the students involved.

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Miss Universe 2012: Miss Guyana Ruqayyah Boyer crashes to the floor in front of judges in Las Vegas

Eighty nine beauties from all over the world have gathered at the Planet Hollywood Resort and Casino in Las Vegas to battle it out for the much coveted title of Miss Universe 2012.

This preliminary stage helps to determine the 16 semi-finalists that will be announced on pageant night on December 19th together with results of the ongoing online voting on the Miss Universe website.

“Rounds” at this stage in the competition included posing in bikinis and evening gowns, but unfortunately for Miss Guyana Ruqayyah Boyer , she became a fashion victim of her floor-sweeping evening dress and crashed to the floor in front of the judges last night in Las Vegas.

Miss Guyana Ruqayyah Boyer became a fashion victim of her floor-sweeping evening dress and crashed to the floor in front of the judges at Miss Universe 2012 in Las Vegas
Miss Guyana Ruqayyah Boyer became a fashion victim of her floor-sweeping evening dress and crashed to the floor in front of the judges at Miss Universe 2012 in Las Vegas

The remaining 88 contestants must have assumed they were all one step closer to winning the Diamond Nexus Crown as the combination of a shiny catwalk, skyscraper heels and a floor-skimming gown proved disastrous for the pretty South American.

The pageant began as a local “bathing beauty” competition spearheaded by Catalina Swimwear in Long Beach, California, and is now an international annual tradition.

The contest has evolved into a year-round international organization that claims to advance and support opportunities for these young women.

The competition aims to award women who are savvy, goal-oriented and aware and believes that women compete with the hope of advancing their careers, personal and humanitarian goals.

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Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov jailed for 11 years over Anna Politkovskaya murder

Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov, a former Russian police officer, has been jailed for 11 years for his role in the murder of prominent journalist Anna Politkovskaya.

Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov was found guilty by a court in Moscow of tracking Anna Politkovskaya’s movements and providing the killer with a gun.

He struck a plea bargain to qualify for a reduced sentence.

Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov was tried separately from five other men accused of the 2006 murder, which shocked human rights campaigners.

The court also ordered Lt. Col. Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov to pay 3 million rubles ($97,500) in compensation to Anna Politkovskaya’s children.

Anna Politkovskaya’s family had demanded 10 million rubles.

After the verdict, Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov was immediately led away from the courtroom by guards.

Anna Politkovskaya’s family had opposed the plea bargain, under which Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov was allowed to admit his guilt without testifying.

The other defendants include three members of the same Chechen family: Rustam Makhmudov, who is accused of firing the fatal shots, and his brothers Dzhabrail and Ibragim, who are accused of acting as getaway drivers.

All three men were tried and acquitted for lack of evidence in 2009 but the verdict was overturned by Russia’s supreme court, which ordered them to be retried.

Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov, a former Russian police officer, has been jailed for 11 years for his role in the murder of prominent journalist Anna Politkovskaya
Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov, a former Russian police officer, has been jailed for 11 years for his role in the murder of prominent journalist Anna Politkovskaya

The prosecutors said Dmitry Pavlyuchenkov was part of the gang formed by Chechen crime boss, Lom-Ali Gaitukayev, who was himself allegedly in the pay of an unidentified mastermind.

Lom-Ali Gaitukayev was arrested in 2007 in a separate case and is currently serving a jail sentence for the attempted murder of a businessman. He was charged over the Politkovskaya murder last year.

Another former police officer, Sergei Khadzhikurbanov, has been charged with providing logistical support in the crime.

Anna Politkovskaya was an investigative journalist who wrote highly critical reports on the Kremlin and of Russian military actions in Chechnya.

On 7 October 2006, she was found shot dead in a lift at her block of flats in Moscow.

At the time, the 48-year-old was working for a small-circulation Russian newspaper, Novaya Gazeta, known for its fierce attacks on the country’s authorities.

Anna Politkovskaya’s brutal murder shocked the media in Russia and abroad, and led to calls for better protection of journalists in the country.

The late journalist’s family had argued in vain that the plea bargain would not help establish who had ultimately ordered the murder.

Their lawyer said they would appeal against Friday’s verdict for being too lenient.

Novaya Gazeta’s editor-in-chief said earlier there was a “political taboo” on identifying the person who had ordered the killing.

Dmitry Muratov said he wanted any plea-bargaining in the case to require that suspects name this person.

LoveGeist: match.com annual report reveals there is “perfect man” for every stage in a woman’s life

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A new research has found that women’s tastes change as they get older and proving that there is indeed a “perfect man” for every stage in a woman’s life.

From bright young things on the hunt for a hunk to “later daters” looking for a cerebral soulmate, the research shows that a woman’s age will often dictate the different characteristics they look for in a partner.

The research in match.com’s annual LoveGeist report, which tracks the nation’s changing attitudes towards dating and relationships, also disproves the notion that standards drop later in life, as women over 55 were shown to be most picky about who they date.

Dr. Cecilia D’Felice, clinical psychologist and relationship expert at match.com, said: ‘It is natural that, as women mature, our tastes adjust to our developing expectations.

“When younger, looks predominate as we seek out someone with whom we want to share our genes, but these <<surface attributes>> become less important as we look for depth and new experiences later in life.”

So what makes a perfect man for each age in a woman’s life?

Age 18-24

  • First and foremost, young women want a man they can show off to their friends. 47% said they would look for a relationship with someone their friends would approve of
  • They are also suckers for a six-pack: 18-24s are most willing to date a man in better physical shape than them
  • Shared tastes in music, films and books are far more important at this age than later in life

Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “When we first start dating we carry over the desire to fit in and belong from our adolescence, and seek approval from our friends to validate our choices. We are building confidence at this age, and it’s important to us to know that we are choosing well.”

Age 25-34

  • As they forge ahead in their careers, women at this age begin to take a more long-term view, but are still susceptible to a dashing man; physical attraction is more important than ever
  • Sexual compatibility is more important to 25-34s than at any other stage in their lives
  • Ambition is also important, with almost two thirds citing this as a key trait in a man

Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “As we grow in confidence and invest in our own careers, partners who are doing the same become very attractive to us.

“And while we’re young and sexy it is natural that we want our dates to reflect this aspect of ourselves as well.

“This mirroring of ambition and looks reflects these years when we are consolidating our persona; working out who we are and what we want.”

LoveGeist report has found that women’s tastes change as they get older and proving that there is indeed a perfect man for every stage in a woman’s life
LoveGeist report has found that women’s tastes change as they get older and proving that there is indeed a perfect man for every stage in a woman’s life

Age 35-44

  • As they look to settle down, women aged 35-44 are most likely to have their head turned by an older man. 73% would be willing to date someone more than five years their senior
  • Social graces are also an absolute must-have at this stage in life. Less than 1% of the females surveyed said they would date a man with bad manners

Dr. Cecilia D’Felice: “Priorities shift as we begin to think of commitment and family life.

“Men who are established, stable, and successful and have life experience become very attractive to women at this age, offering the depth of resources (both material and emotional) required for successful partnership.”

Age 45-54

  • Security is a key concern, with 95% looking to find a partner with whom they felt secure
  • Finding a man with a high income is as important to this age group as any other
  • Women in this age range are less picky about who they date than any other
  • In contrast to those just a few years younger, women aged 45-54 are most likely to consider dating a younger man. 54% would be willing to date someone more than five years younger

Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “At this stage women are becoming increasingly confident.

“With hormone levels changing they become more assertive, experimenting more and celebrating their wisdom.

“They are prepared to take risks and perhaps seek out new adventures; they are not afraid to search for passion, but still understand that feeling secure is a vital ingredient for happiness.”

Age 55+

  • In later life, women look for more cerebral delights. Intelligence and shared values are more important to the over-55s, as is sharing a similar sense of humor
  • But they don’t drop their standards as they get older. In fact, those aged 55 and over are pickier about who they romance than at any other age
  • They also continue to value sexual compatibility: 45% strongly agreed that this was an important factor when forming a relationship

Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “Subtle shifts in development create a well-rounded perspective on relationships, stressing the importance of friendship as well as sexual resonance.

“These women take the long-term view that commitment requires humor, intelligence and shared values to stand the test of time, meaning they are not prepared to settle for anything else. Having experienced different relationships, they know exactly what they want and, importantly, what they don’t.”

Elephants drink vodka to be saved from deadly Siberian cold

Two elephants have been saved from the deadly Siberian cold by drinking vodka, officials say.

They say the elephants had to be taken out into the bitter cold after the wooden trailer they were travelling in caught fire in the Novosibirsk region.

The elephants, aged 45 and 48, suffered frostbite to the tips of their ears amid temperatures of -40C (-40F).

But they were warmed up by two cases of vodka mixed with warm water, one official was quoted as saying.

“They started roaring like if they were in the jungle! Perhaps, they were happy,” the official told Russia’s Ria Novosti news agency.

Two elephants have been saved from the deadly Siberian cold by drinking vodka
Two elephants have been saved from the deadly Siberian cold by drinking vodka

The animals continued their recovery in a heated garage of a local college where they were brought by a truck under police escort.

The elephants belong to a Polish circus, which has been touring the region, reports say.

Like with humans, alcohol can make animals feel warmer but it actually lowers their core body temperature, scientists say.

But Komsomolskaya Pravda newspaper quoted Novosibirsk zoo director Rostislav Shilo as saying that the elephants were not harmed or intoxicated by the vodka, and that without it they would have died of hypothermia or pneumonia.

Sandy Hook School shooting: at least 27 people killed in a Connecticut primary school shooting attack

At least 27 people have been killed, including many children, in a shooting attack at a primary school in the US state of Connecticut, US media say.

At least 18 children are among the dead at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, the Associated Press reported.

Earlier, the gunman was reported to have been killed and at least three people were taken to hospital.

A news conference is imminent and the state Governor Dannell Malloy is on his way.

Police arrived at the school soon after 09:40 local time, answering reports that a gunman was in the school’s main office and one person had “numerous gunshot wounds”.

Scores of officers at the scene carried out a full search of the site.

Schools across the district were immediately on lock-down as a preventive measure, officials said.

Meanwhile, the three people who have been taken to hospital are in “very serious condition”, Danbury Mayor Mark Boughton told CNN.

One witness speaking to CNN said that shots were heard coming from the hall. There “must have been 100 rounds” fired, she told the channel.

Local media have reported that firefighters instructed children to close their eyes and run past the school’s office as they exited the building.

Other sources suggest that some of the shots were fired in a school classroom.

According to CNN, the shooter’s body was in one of the school’s classrooms.

At least 18 children are among the dead at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown
At least 18 children are among the dead at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown

There were unconfirmed reports of two shooters, according to a report in the local Hartford Courant newspaper.

With the children now evacuated, aerial images of the school show several emergency vehicles still at the scene and scores of cars surrounding the area.

Teams of officers are on the scene, some with dogs, as a thorough search of the school continues.

A local NBC news channel said that a hospital in nearby Danbury had reported receiving three injured patients.

Several parents are reportedly at the school, standing by and waiting for more information. Officials say they are trying to unite children with their parents.

Sandy Hook School – described by correspondents as a highly rated school – has cancelled its kindergarten class on Friday and will not operate midday bus runs, the school’s website says.

The public school has more than 600 students in classes from Kindergarten to 4th Grade – including students aged from five to 10.

White House Press Secretary Jay Carney told reporters that US President Barack Obama had been informed of the incident and was receiving regular updates.

On its website, Danbury Hospital said it was aware of a “situation” at the school.

“Please know we’re collecting facts now and will be back to you as soon as possible with the most accurate information,” the hospital said in a statement.

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Jovan Belcher shot Kasandra Perkins dead and then killed himself after she told him he was not the father of her baby

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Jovan Belcher shot his girlfriend Kasandra Perkins dead before shooting himself because she told him he was not the father of their baby daughter, it was revealed today.

The Long Island mother of Kansas City Chief’s player, Cheryl Shepherd, said the couple argued over the paternity of their three-month-old daughter right before the murder suicide at her son’s home in Missouri.

Cheryl Shepherd was in the home when her son shot Kasandra Perkins, 22, nine times before fleeing. He is believed to have kissed her dying body and their baby daughter goodbye before he left.

A source told the New York Post: “The mother believed that there was an issue over whether [Belcher] was the father. She said he believed he wasn’t necessarily the father of the child.”

A Kansas City law-enforcement source confirmed: “She told police there was a question about the paternity.”

It is unclear if the paternity issue was the reason why the rocky relationship ended in such a violent and tragic way.

The source added: “The implication was that paternity was what the two of them were fighting about – that the baby might not have been his.”

Jovan Belcher shot his girlfriend Kasandra Perkins dead before shooting himself because she told him he was not the father of their baby daughter
Jovan Belcher shot his girlfriend Kasandra Perkins dead before shooting himself because she told him he was not the father of their baby daughter

The couple had been receiving counseling for relationship and financial problems, police said.

A spokeswoman said she would not comment on the doubts raised over baby Zoey’s paternity.

According to the New York Post, she is set to receive more than $1 million over the years until she reaches 18. It is not clear if this was based on the results of a pregnancy test.

Jovan Belcher’s beneficiary will also get $600,000 in life insurance, a $100,000 retirement account and $200,000 for each of the four seasons played.

A Kansas City police spokeswoman said the baby’s paternity wouldn’t be part of the department’s murder-suicide probe.

“That would not be something they’re going to investigate,” said Sgt Marisa Barnes.

“It’s a <<he-said, she-said>> so there’s no way to investigate. It would be nothing more than a civil matter.”

Jovan Belcher was memorialized as a “humble, kind young man” at his funeral on Wednesday – despite the brutal murder of the mother of his child and shooting himself in front of his coaches.

Jenni Rivera’s family disgusted over pictures of her body parts leaked online

Jenni Rivera’s family are said to be disgusted over the gruesome video leaked on the internet which shows parts of her bloodied dismembered body strewn amongst the wreckage.

The family wants the people responsible to be brought to justice after the leaked footage – which shows a severed foot with painted toenails – spread like wildfire across the internet.

Two Mexican police officers were arrested yesterday for looting from the wreckage site. One of these officers is thought to have sold the images to the media.

Though the video was not confirmed as being authentic, the Rivera family said they believe it is due to the items in the video and images of the mangled body parts.

It also emerged the company that owns the luxury jet Jenni Rivera was traveling in is under investigation by the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA), and the agency seized two of its planes earlier this year as part of the ongoing probe.

DEA spokeswoman Lisa Webb Johnson confirmed on Thursday the planes owned by Las Vegas-based Starwood Management were seized in Texas and Arizona.

The agency also has subpoenaed all the company’s records, including any correspondence it has had with a former Tijuana mayor who U.S. law enforcement officials have long suspected has ties to organized crime.

Sources close to the Riveras told TMZ the family is appalled that anyone would even think about leaking something like that, especially if it was a first responder.

“We’re told the severed foot was the most painful part to watch because Jenni was very particular about her feet and toes,” the source said.

Jenni Rivera’s family are said to be disgusted over the gruesome video leaked on the internet which shows parts of her bloodied dismembered body strewn amongst the wreckage
Jenni Rivera’s family are said to be disgusted over the gruesome video leaked on the internet which shows parts of her bloodied dismembered body strewn amongst the wreckage

The officers were caught after images of the crash site were found on one of the arrested officers’ cell phones.
The extremely graphic photos depicted body parts and personal documents belonging to those aboard the doomed flight, including Jenni Rivera, 43, a singer and reality star known as the “Queen of Banda”.

The Spanish news agency EFE identified the arrested officers as Luis Antonio Ávila Moreno, 23 and Mario Alberto García Pacheco, 24.

The items that the duo allegedly stole from the plane were not identified by investigators.

As the issue of police corruption rears its ugly head, Mexican authorities hope to continue with the investigation of the tragic crash on Sunday.

A person speaking on behalf of the Mexican Consulate in Los Angeles told TMZ: “We have over 2,000,000 police officers [in Mexico], and unfortunately some of these officers have been corrupt in the past, but we cannot generalize that the whole force is corrupt.”

The rep added: “Mexico has been working very hard to make their citizens and tourists safe, however it is not fair to judge the whole tree based upon a few bad apples.”

The body of Jenni Rivera was found in the wreckage along with the bodies of six others, including her publicist, lawyer, make-up artist and two pilots.

News of the arrests came as Rivera’s family identified her remains.

Nuevo Leon state security spokesman Jorge Domene said DNA tests are still pending. Jenni Rivera’s remains will be given to the family once the tests are completed in coming days.

It was also revealed this week that Jenni Rivera was in the final states of buying the Learjet plane from business executive Christian E. Esquino Nunez, 50, who has a long and checkered legal past.

Corporate records list his sister-in-law as the company’s only officer, but insurance companies that cover some of the firm’s planes say in court documents that the woman is merely a front and that Christian E. Esquino Nunez is the one in charge.

Christian E. Esquino Nunez’s legal woes date back decades. He pleaded guilty to a fraud charge that stemmed from a major drug investigation in Florida in the early 1990s and most recently was sentenced to two years in federal prison in a California aviation fraud case.

Christian E. Esquino Nunez, a Mexican citizen, was deported upon his release.

Avigdor Lieberman, Israeli Foreign Minister, resigns after being charged with breach of trust

Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman has been forced to resign after prosecutors decided to charge him with breach of trust.

Avigdor Lieberman has also resigned as deputy prime minister, and said he would fight to clear his name of the charges.

The case against him relates to a financial scandal dating back more than a decade.

His resignation comes five weeks before Israel’s general election.

“Though I know I committed no crime… I have decided to resign my post as foreign minister and deputy prime minister,” Avigdor Lieberman said in a statement released by his office.

He also said he would waive his parliamentary immunity and suggested he hoped to settle the case before the elections, due on January 22nd, allowing him to stand as a candidate as planned.

“I am doing this because I am convinced that Israel’s citizens should be able to go to the polls after this matter has been settled… and I can continue to serve the state of Israel and Israel’s citizens as part of a strong united leadership,” Avigdor Lieberman said in the statement.

Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman has been forced to resign after prosecutors decided to charge him with breach of trust
Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman has been forced to resign after prosecutors decided to charge him with breach of trust

Avigdor Lieberman is the leader of Yisrael Beitenu, the second largest party in Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s Likud-led coalition government.

The two parties were due to run together in January’s general election, with polls suggesting they were on course to win before the charges against Avigdor Lieberman were announced.

Police had been investigating allegations of money laundering and bribery against Avigdor Lieberman, but prosecutors instead announced plans to charge him with the lesser offence of breach of trust.

That relates to him receiving confidential documents concerning the investigation against him from the former Israeli ambassador to Belarus, who he later promoted to another post.

The more serious charges of bribery and money laundering relate to allegations that Avigdor Lieberman received millions of dollars from businessmen with interests in Israel, and laundered the money through shell companies and bank accounts.

Israeli prosecutors said they had been forced to close the case due to a lack of evidence.

Avigdor Lieberman has denied any wrongdoing, and described the investigations as a witch hunt.

He is seen as one of Israel’s most outspoken politicians. Born in Moldova, he is one of the million Israelis who immigrated from the former Soviet Union.

Seen as to the right of Benjamin Netanyahu, Avigdor Lieberman has been a harsh critic of the Palestinian Authority and its leader Mahmoud Abbas. He lives in an Israeli settlement in the West Bank.

Jacintha Saldanha criticized senior colleagues in one of three suicide notes

Jacintha Saldanha, the nurse found dead following a hoax call to the hospital treating Kate Middleton, criticized senior colleagues over her treatment in one of three suicide notes, it has emerged.

An inquest heard that Jacintha Saldanha, 46, left three emotional suicide notes following the prank call by Australian DJs Mel Greig and Michael Christian.

But it has emerged today that in one of the notes she has criticized colleagues at the King Edward VII hospital over her treatment following the controversial call.

It is believed Jacintha Saldanha’s suicide note has left her grieving family furious, with husband Ben Barboza understood to want an inquiry into the hospital.

He is also believed to want an independent investigation into what happened in the days leading up to the death of his wife, for whom student nurses in Bangalore, India, held a candlelit vigil overnight.
The nurses, who were seen walking the streets holding candles and reciting prayers in tribute to the mother of two, demanded an inquiry into the circumstances surrounding her death.

“It is very unfortunate for a nurse, who was in a peak of her career had to die in a very bad way from the royal prank played by some foolish people,” said one attendee named as Ravi.

“This nurse was traumatized so much that she could not face anybody and committed a suicide. We pray for her soul to rest in peace and her family to come out of the incident.”

A nurse named as Vijaylaxmi said at the march organized by a local politician: “We are here to pray for nurse Jacintha’s family, so my kind request is that proper investigation has to be done and it is a major issue, we cannot leave this issue.”

A vigil in memory of Jacintha Saldanha was organized by a local politician in Bangalore
A vigil in memory of Jacintha Saldanha was organized by a local politician in Bangalore

Speaking to the Daily Mirror about Jacintha Saldanha’s suicide notes, a source close to the family said: “One of the letters, which is the longest, deals with the hospital and is critical in its tone.

“Needless to say, Ben wants a full inquiry into what happened and he wants to make sure the truth comes out. Within the letter, Jacintha calls into question some of the treatment she received at the hospital.”

In another note, Jacintha Saldanha describes how she struggled to come to terms with the prank call by the two Australian DJs. The third and final letter is practical and deals with her funeral plans.

The body of the mother-of-two was discovered in her room in staff quarters last Friday. Two of the notes were found nearby and a third was among her possessions.

Jacintha Saldanha had also sent a number of emails and made telephone calls that police believe might help explain what happened.

During a five-minute hearing at Westminster Coroner’s Court yesterday it was revealed that attempts were made to revive the nurse but they were “to no avail”.

Detective Chief Inspector James Harman said: “Jacintha Saldanha was found by a colleague and a member of security staff. Sadly she was found hanging.

“There were also injuries to her wrist. The London Ambulance Service was called to the scene. At this time there are no suspicious circumstances.”

Scotland Yard detectives are examining the notes, as well as interviewing Jacintha Saldanha’s friends, family and colleagues at London’s King Edward VII hospital.

John Mayer and Katy Perry as official couple at Rolling Stones concert in New Jersey

After months of speculation, Katy Perry was finally heard introducing John Mayer as her “boyfriend” Wednesday night.

And Katy Perry certainly looked like one smitten kitten the following evening as she and John Mayer went on a date to a Rolling Stones concert in New Jersey.

While they were clearly enjoying the music, the couple was more interested in each other.

As well as gazing adoringly at one another, John Mayer was spotted whispering sweet nothings into Katy Perry’s ear.

Katy Perry wore a cute skyline printed top with a patterned blazer for the performance while John Mayer sported a casual jacket and shirt.

 

After months of speculation, Katy Perry was finally heard introducing John Mayer as her boyfriend Wednesday night
After months of speculation, Katy Perry was finally heard introducing John Mayer as her boyfriend Wednesday night

 

A series of posts on The Rolling Stones’ official Twitter account read: “#StonesNJ Respectable ‘Take it away John!’ Incredible @johnmayerguitar solo

“John Mayer! Take a bow John, fantastic! Thank you!’ #StonesNJ@johnmayer (sic)”

After the music, they went backstage to pose for pictures with the show’s child-filled cast, which was precisely the moment when Katy Perry decided to make their pairing official.

“This is my boyfriend John,” Katy Perry told the smiling kids.

According to Us Weekly, a witness then overheard the singer say: “Come on, baby, let’s take a picture.”

The on-off couple seem thrilled to spend their first Christmas together after a brief split in August.

Katy Perry split from ex-husband Russell Brand last December after just 14 months of marriage, and she admitted the experience had made her realize she is the only person who can make herself happy.

Meanwhile, John Mayer has a notorious reputation for loving and leaving some of Hollywood’s most eligible ladies, including Taylor Swift, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Aniston, and Jennifer Love-Hewitt.