From bright young things on the hunt for a hunk to “later daters” looking for a cerebral soulmate, the research shows that a woman’s age will often dictate the different characteristics they look for in a partner.
The research in match.com’s annual LoveGeist report, which tracks the nation’s changing attitudes towards dating and relationships, also disproves the notion that standards drop later in life, as women over 55 were shown to be most picky about who they date.
Dr. Cecilia D’Felice, clinical psychologist and relationship expert at match.com, said: ‘It is natural that, as women mature, our tastes adjust to our developing expectations.
“When younger, looks predominate as we seek out someone with whom we want to share our genes, but these <<surface attributes>> become less important as we look for depth and new experiences later in life.”
So what makes a perfect man for each age in a woman’s life?
Age 18-24
Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “When we first start dating we carry over the desire to fit in and belong from our adolescence, and seek approval from our friends to validate our choices. We are building confidence at this age, and it’s important to us to know that we are choosing well.”
Age 25-34
Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “As we grow in confidence and invest in our own careers, partners who are doing the same become very attractive to us.
“And while we’re young and sexy it is natural that we want our dates to reflect this aspect of ourselves as well.
“This mirroring of ambition and looks reflects these years when we are consolidating our persona; working out who we are and what we want.”
Age 35-44
Dr. Cecilia D’Felice: “Priorities shift as we begin to think of commitment and family life.
“Men who are established, stable, and successful and have life experience become very attractive to women at this age, offering the depth of resources (both material and emotional) required for successful partnership.”
Age 45-54
Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “At this stage women are becoming increasingly confident.
“With hormone levels changing they become more assertive, experimenting more and celebrating their wisdom.
“They are prepared to take risks and perhaps seek out new adventures; they are not afraid to search for passion, but still understand that feeling secure is a vital ingredient for happiness.”
Age 55+
Dr. Cecilia D’Felice said: “Subtle shifts in development create a well-rounded perspective on relationships, stressing the importance of friendship as well as sexual resonance.
“These women take the long-term view that commitment requires humor, intelligence and shared values to stand the test of time, meaning they are not prepared to settle for anything else. Having experienced different relationships, they know exactly what they want and, importantly, what they don’t.”
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